From "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*CK"
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Free 10-min PreviewThe Influence of Personal Values on Interpreting Suffering and Life's Purpose
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Hiroo Onoda was deployed to Lubang Island in the Philippines in December 1944 with orders to never surrender, even as Japan's defeat was imminent. Following Japan's surrender in August 1945, Onoda and three of his men remained hidden in the jungle for decades, continuing guerrilla warfare against U.S. forces and local inhabitants. Despite thousands of leaflets announcing the war's end, and even letters from his family, Onoda dismissed them as American traps, maintaining his mission by attacking supply lines, burning crops, stealing livestock, and murdering civilians for nearly 30 years, living off insects and rodents.
Onoda was eventually found in 1974 and returned to Japan as a celebrity, yet he was profoundly disillusioned by the modern, consumerist culture that had abandoned the traditional values of honor and sacrifice he believed he had defended. While he initially claimed pride in his choices and his time on Lubang, the stark realization that the Japan he fought for no longer existed shattered his sense of purpose. This truth, that his immense suffering had ultimately meant nothing to the new society, caused him deeper despair than any jungle hardship, prompting his move to Brazil in 1980.
This narrative illustrates that while suffering is an inevitable part of life, its meaning is entirely chosen based on one's values and metrics. Onoda's initial ability to endure and even value his suffering stemmed from his loyalty to a perceived empire; however, when that value became obsolete, his suffering became retrospectively meaningless. The crucial question becomes 'Why am I sufferingβfor what purpose?' rather than 'How do I stop suffering?' as the assigned meaning to one's struggles dictates their endurability and impact on one's life quality.
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