Engaging with the Abundant Feminine Energy

Key Insight

Feminine energy is universally abundant; any perception of its scarcity, or of a lack of 'good women,' stems from a man's resistance to receiving it. Life itself embodies this feminine energy, constantly available and sustaining all existence. Feeling isolated, weary, or hungry for a woman indicates a refusal to embrace this omnipresent energy. A man is surrounded by an 'ocean' of feminine energy, which, if properly received, would rejuvenate every cell of his body. This energy is present in the natural world and in human women.

To embrace this abundance, a man should consciously interact with the present moment and women. For instance, he can feel the moment as if embracing a woman physically, imagining her softness, liveliness, breasts, and belly pressed against him, inhaling her fragrance and essence as nourishing food. Similarly, he should perceive human women not just as friends or coworkers, but as 'walking blessings' of energy, receiving their anger as awakening, their sexiness as enlivenment, and their happiness as refreshment. This deep reception through breath and body allows his day to become a 'feast of plenty,' without needing to alter his outward behavior or interactions.

Maintaining a 'polarized' relationship with women and the world is crucial to prevent depolarization, which manifests as rejection, resistance, and resentment. When a man denies his desire, or becomes too familiar, his woman's radiance diminishes, leading to anger, self-destructive energy, and even disease. A superior man takes complete responsibility for this dynamic. Even when his woman appears withdrawn or 'ugly,' he must proactively 'invade' her heart and body with love, humor, and sexually 'pregnant' attention, as he would a mistress. This proactive engagement, a continuous 'giving of his gift,' rekindles her radiance and prevents the relationship from becoming 'dreary' or leading to the impulse to abandon it.